Who you really are??

Sometimes we will ask our-self this question. Is something that we sometimes hardly understand, our-self. Who am I? Do I understand "ME" enough? Now in order to tell you guys how to answer this, it doesn't require your friends, your colleagues, your family to tell you. What it needs to answer it is you. Let put it more simple, you are who you wanted to be. Simple? or stupid? Kinda. I'm writing this post is to completely not answer this question but the other one. Who am I going to be? 3 tips to become a better you and answer who you are.

1. Personal Branding

Coca-cola is a well known brand. It worth estimated $79.2 billion, if I change that soft drink to become you. How much your brand worth. Not your income, not your net worth but your brand. RM100,000 or RM10? Most of the time our own personal brand worth nothing because we don't build it, we are bad drivers, we are rude, we don't respect other races, we don't respect other religion, we look down on foreign workers, we don't respect other people. With all of that, how much your brand can really worth?? Since you don't build your brand, and no one else beside you can build it.

2. Find the brand you want to build and start building it.

To find the brand doesn't you need to ask around to find your brand. Did Coca-cola ask everyone to find their brand, no right. They define what their brand is. Same as you, you define what is your brand. You want to be a leader, a good husband, a good business person, Yes you could. It needs hard work and patients. You think Coca-cola build their brand just in one night? Think again. One more thing, nothing is perfect same as Coke, they are one of the unhealthy soft drinks, but their brand stand their ground. Same as you, people might judge you in different way, don't get stress out because people don't think good about you, maybe not now but one day will.

3. Why this Bullsh*t matter?

You will earn respect, trust, probably money if you are a businessman, and you will stand out compare to others, you will make people think good about you. Does that matter now? Check your Facebook (the most dangerous one), Linkedin profile, your Twitter, what you wear, what you do everyday. Does any of that define what you wanted to be.

There you go guys, what makes a good Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM)? The answer is you and your brand. Leave your comment and let me know what you think.

Less expensive item to spice up your style from UNIQLO

I'm a big fan of UNIQLO, they have the basic and most comfortable wear. This brand from Japan focus on the basic thing of clothing, which is comfort. Its simple and nice. I found three items that I think men should check it out.

1. The tie.

Tie is essential for men, is a good piece to layer your style. These tie only cost you RM29.90 which is quite cheap. If you are bored which those common tie, you can try these. First and second one is blunt-end knitted tie. They are more to casual tie, as you can see the end of the tie is flat. Personally I suggest you buy the second one if you plan to, although it's a casual tie, you can still wear it at office, why not right. Second one isn't so formal and not so casual. If you pick the first one, do wear it during casual hour, because the design is too casual. The third one is wool tie which it has a rough feel, this one will definaly rock your style. People will notice your tie the first moment they saw your. Formal or casual, both are suitable.

2. Vintage eye wear.

This one is RM39.90. Cheap and it's something you can change your style to a different look. If you want to get more vintage style, try this.

3. RM69.90 Jeans.

If you are looking for a jeans below RM100, there you have it. I suggest this one is because it's a slim-fit cut, where the cutting won't be too big and baggy. The material is quite soft but not low quality soft. This jeans have no washed design on it, which make it very simple and suitable for any occasions. Jeans is always men's best friend. You can wear it very very long time, and suit many styles.  

Check it out at Uniqlo and add something more choice to you style. This is Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) style. Leave your comment and let me know what you think.

Why Are You Argue With Your Girl???

When you have a girlfriend everything seems nice, like everyday you woke up with the most energetic and most happier emotions ever. Every couple will have their most happiest and most loving period during the first few months of their love journey. After sometime, problems start to occur and things seem not going well for both of you.  But why both of you argue? No one knows why both of you are argue for, now here are 3 tips on how you can avoid argument with your girl.

1. Don't always try to solve everything of your girl problems.

Girls will tell you everything that they can think of during the time. She will tell you about every single problems of they are facing even those tiny one. What she want isn't asking you to help her to solve it, she just want someone (especially you) to listen to her. Women tent to talk more when they are miserable. So when you always trying to solve your girl things so often, she will hate it, next thing argument happen. When you want you to help her, she will ask. So when she doesn't you just listen.

2. She ask you to do this and do that.

This is something we guys will hate. Sometime your girl will order you to do something, and we guys will hate it. Why? Because guys will hate when girls ask us to do something that we dislike or the second reason are when she did that, is like she doubt about our abilities or choices. Example: Clean your bloody dirty room. Instead you angry about it, you should think the other way, girls won't do so when she doesn't care, so accept her though and try to do it, if you get a girlfriend that doesn't care so much, you can start thinking about probably end the relationship.

3. Let her talks about her thing first before your tell her yours

This is quite a simple thing to do, when both you are talking or chatting, as a gentleman you should let you girl talks about her things first. She will feel more relax after she talk about her thing first and it shows that you care about her. Beside that she will listen to you more when she done talking about her own things. This is nature of a girl, you can't change it, you can only accept it.

Here you go guys, this the way to avoid argument with your girl. This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) treat their girl. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

How to wear a white shirt

The must have item in men's wardrobe. If you do search online for men must have things, the white shirt will be sure on the list. It's easy to wear it with different style. Just because it's simple, it doesn't mean you won't wear it the wrong way. Now, here are the 3 most easy tips to rock that white shirt of yours.

1. Never wear it with black!

Never mix it with black tie, black leather shoes, black belt, black vest and black everything. Mind your watch also if you are wearing leather one, try not to wear a black leather watch. You will be end up like a waitress style when you mix it with black. From the photo we can see the shirt fit him, the design is good, but in Malaysia people will call you a waitress. I don't know why people will say that but they just do. The solution? Mix it with grey slack, brown belt, or brown shoes. Go to more colors, black and white are too traditional. and it's very waitress style.

2. Mind the material!

In Malaysia we have hot girls plus hot weather. We live in a D*mn summer country and we don't have free air-con everywhere like in western do. So when you are going to sweat, of course you will, it's better you choose a white shirt that have good absorption and thicker material. When you buy those thin one and you think it's going to help you stay cool, look at the picture above. Not 'Man' at all.

3. Choose a good deodorant!

This tip isn't about how you wear it, is about how you take care of it. Well, we Malaysian do sweat a lot and as men we should use deodorant to keep away those body smell. Some guys won't have fishy smell after they sweat but most of us do. So when you are using deodorant, be sure to choose one that won't leave stains, yes! those yellow stains and 'Geli betul' when you saw it. Since it's white, the mark is very visible.

Here you go guys, rock that white shirt you have, you can make it the great piece of shirt you will ever have.  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) wear a white shirt. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

Why Most of Malaysian Man Have Belly Fat

Belly fat! We man hate it. People look at you and will say this, "Why he so fat one", "Gemuk betul!", and the most saddest is "Long time no see, you seems having a happy life, I can tell from your shape!". Maybe you tried before to get it away but it just won't disappear. The are few reasons that why Malaysian man have belly fat. This post is only here to help those who care about their health, but if you feel that being chubby makes your more happy and look good then is a good thing, some guys do look nicer when they are fat, but still take care your health will ya.

1. Mamak!

We as Malaysian love mamak, is our culture, and it represent us. We have dinner at there, 'Yam Cha' at there, supper at there, and the feel is awesome. The more often you go, the more likely you won't get those belly fat away, we Malaysian know that the mamak food is oily, salty, spicy, like mee goreng. The teh tarik is D*mn sweet (probably it won't starting next year). But Bro call leh! How can I not go. Well, like I said the more often you go the worse, less you go the better. Life is about choices you made, you can choose social or health when these situation occur.

2. It's a habit since we are young!

The three things that form your habit since young are school, parents and friends. Our education system never care about student health, no good habit was form at school. Does your parents eating healthy? If yes, good news for you, if not, change your family eating culture. Well, friends who you hang out when you are young play sports, is good. If not, probably you won't do sport now. Habit can control us, since it's our habit, why not we control them rather than they control us.

3. We are talker more than do-er!

You tell your friend this, "Bro, I tell you what, I'm going to hit the Gym starting next week". Most of the time, you either join for short period of time or totally didn't even join. Most of the guys have one concept, they think they put in all the hard work and after they get great shape they can quit, no need to maintain one lor? If you think that way, no great shape will come to you. What I mean do-er is a person who take care their health and lose their belly fat for rest of their lives. Rest of my life?! You Gila kah? Erm.....try to look down and see what you have?

If you can get these things in place and commit yourself then is a good start. Best of luck guys!  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) take care their six-pack. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

One Week for Happier Work

Most of the time, D*mn things happen at your work. Your stupid boss, stubborn colleagues, too much work load or what ever happen on you that just make your work like S*IT, you suddenly just can't wake up and have to passion to work. You just can't take control of that thing, but it just continue to 'Kacau' you.

Sometimes what we will do is hate it, angry about it, or simply do nothing. But still it happen everyday. So what can you do about it, for years you have been in this position, you love the job but there just nothing you can do to change. Well, you do can change it. Here is the one week challenge for you. Within this one week what you have to do is one thing, no complain. Therse are reasons for not to complain.

1. Waste of time!

Complain is waste of time. Why? Complain won't help. When you spend that 5 to 10 minutes to complain about it, that 5 to 10 minutes probably can be use to solve the problem. Time is precious especially when you have a lot of work load.

2. Complain makes people hate you!

People have their own problem to be solve. Yes, people just doesn't care about your problem. Human are selfish. Since people don't care then why you still tell your problem to them? They will one reaction, hate about what you told them. Complain and trying to solve a problem is different. When you tell someone about your problem and the purpose is to solve it then is not complain, if you're not trying to solve smt, that is complain. 

3. Those who don't complain climb the corporate ladder faster.

Yes, this is true. Your boss will pick the one who complain less. They won't know they do so, but they do. So what can you do to stand out compare to others, yes, no complain.

Try it out for one week, cancel out all your complains. If you can do it for one week, do it for another week. repeat it will make result better. Happy working man!  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) work. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

Simplest Tips To Get Girls

Now you want to get a girl, probably she is the one you wish to become your GF or you just wanna get more female friends. This question always bother guys. You will definitely have that moment before, that you wanna get someone else attention. If you do it well, you will get her attention but some guys don't. End up you become a clown or did something that spoil the mood. Your bro will look at you and tell you "Apalah lu!' Now let me go into women's mind and see they want.

Big muscles, like Vin Diesel? Tell girls you can protect her, tough guy huh? Tell girl this "Yo girl, my muscle nice or not? Sexy or not?"  Erm......nope. Guys with muscular body do help to attract girls but until certain point.

Handsome face like Lee Min Ho? Or so call pretty boy, then look at girls and shoot your electricity more than TNB can produce?True, but until certain point also. Trust me, girls won't impress just by your face, tell you why later. Here is the 3 simplest tips.

1. Smile!

Easiest way to break the ice. Girls won't feel stress, shy, or hate you when you do so. Why? You are friendly mah. But don't look at the girl and keep smiling nonstop lah, pervert you will be. The best moment when you do so is the first moment you saw her. That 3 second is precious my bro! So like I said, handsome won't help, if you dont have a good smile.

2. Be yourself and be sincere! 

 No other dating website or any other dating experts will miss this. Why? You are who you are, why fake it? The 1st word she will tell her friend about you is FAKE! I don't care who told you that you have to do this or that, or take care your body language to make girls feel impress, if you are not YOU no matter how well your other skills is, all is FAKE! So be sincere also, not FAKE!

3. Understand her and join her!

Every girl is different. Some like certain thing, some don't. Girls is complicated one. So how to use one tip to get different kind of girl? Yup! Understand her. Boys play 'DOTA', you think girls won't ah? Think again. If you know something she likes, join her. She love shopping? You join her lor. You wanna get the girl or not? So what you think you need to do?

Wish you guys best of luck, try these tips. Is the simplest things to do ever.  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) get girl they dream. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.