What signs that a girl is interested in you.

We guys sometimes confuse a girl responses. They are always expecting guys to take the first move and wait until we make the shot, they will only wait most of the time. That is very nature thing for guys and girls. As gents, we should persuade a girl that we are the best men they will ever have. We understand that when you saw a girl who is that one you wanna get, the urge could be quite strong, but after time you probably will have that confusion, should you try to get closer or should both of you remain friends. Well, that could be a very frustrating. You might just lose a good girl if you don't take the move or you will lost a very good friend. Let me help you to know what are girls reaction when you can't guess their reaction about you.

1. She will tell you many her problems
For girls, they talk about details more that guys. They think and talk the same time and they are fast thinker. Girls will share their detail things to someone they trust and that could be you. Even things that are detail as  ails. That is a sign that she trust you, and you are more than just a friend for her. For girls, they like to speak out their problems when they are stress and they will be more comfort after they speak all of it, even the problem haven't solve. So when both of you are having conversation, watch out for signs that she keep on telling you her problem or things that troubling her life. It's a sign of trust, and what you should do next is take the next step.

2. She will care for you
This could be the very obvious sign. If she doesn't considering you as a trustworthy person, she won't care. How you know she care, you know sometimes we guys can't notice it. Well you will know when she ask more question. When she is worry about you, she will ask more question to know more about your problem. So when you keep asking you question about your problem, good sign and great for you. :)

3. She is happy, I mean really happy when you gave a surprise gift
When a girl likes you, your gift appear more precious that others people gift. Even a small gift will help. Why? For girls, people who they treasure will have more happier impact when the person repay them.

Leave your comments and let me know what you think :)

What makes a men more appealing?

This question has been a men nightmare. If you could answer it, that would be a good thing, what if you can't? I'm here to help. Why does it matter, you live your life like you used to but it doesn't seems to have a necessary to make yourself more appealing. Well, if you want to have more out of your life, this does help? Why, most of the time, a guy who is more appealing have more chance of getting promoted, getting hot girl maybe, XD, getting more friends, I just conclude it as more successful in life. Human are sentimental species, even though you are great in your job, life or what so ever. A men aren't appealing won't get notice and won't give someone else a sense of manliness. So guys can do to make yourself more appealing.

1. Style

It doesn't men you have to dress to look like someone else, but expensive branded stuff, follow the latest trend. The only and most simple thing is wear the right thing. What I mean the right thing isn't just about the right outfit, what I mean is something that suit you. If you are very skinny guy avoid wearing singlet, that won't make you appealing. Choose things that will fit you. It doesn't need to be very stylist but when you wear something that fit you, that is style my friend.

2. Gentlemen

Have you saw a men who doesn't possess a gentlemen qualities have respect and successful in life. I do but the men I know doesn't have the total 'success' in his life. He only wear the sign 'Successful' when he work, because he is a high rank officer, but in real life. Not really. Job isn't everything, even though you are a men who have 'net worth' XD, but if you doesn't possess gentlemen qualities in life, you are not eligible to title 'Successful' and no one else will respect you in life. As a gentlemen we are polite, humble, respect, understanding and sociable.

3. Achievement

It doesn't mean you have to be a champion of a competition or the best of something else, at least you have some achievement. Don't set the level too high. We are not trying to be famous or trying to beat a record. The achievement I mean is you completed something else. You completed a marathon, that is an achievement. You have a great body, even you didn't join any contest to prove it but people can tell right. That is an achievement too. It doesn't have to be something very awesome but an small achievement can show that you are a men who can do things, although not the best but at least you can do something.

Here you go guys, leave your comment and let me know what you think.

Men's Clutch. Yes or No???

What is a men's clutch? It's the same as a women's clutch, but with masculine design. Their function is simple, you can put all the things you need into this small handheld bag. Example your wallet, I-pad, smartphone, notebook, cigarette if you are a smoker, and a lot more. Their capacity can be quite large if you choose a big one. They came with different size to suit different needs. Here are some of examples of men's clutch look like.

Back in the 90's, men are already started to use these kind of clutches, they mostly use it to bring document. If you have been to Padini clothing store you will notice they are starting to sell these kind of thing. Last time I came across one which is around RM59 if I am not mistaken, simple and quite a nice design, PU leather and inside it has a lot of pockets. What I saw in Malaysia is some men are starting to use it but not much. Most of them are Malay, I have to say Malay guys sometime dress quite stylist. When you carry something like this at shopping mall people with think you are girly. Because from the view of Malaysian, these are not a fashion item for men. So here is the debate, should men have one or not? From my view point, any men with a leather one is good and nice. Brown color works the best, it gives that business and western Europe kind of feel. For me, I do use because I have two, one is canvas and other one is PU leather. To choose one, here are some tips. Do choose a leather one, it's more masculine, and more classy. Don't get one which is small which quite the same size as a women long wallet, not very nice from my point of view plus you can't put much things inside. So guys, do you agree men to use one or you disagree men to use one?
Leave your comments and let me know what you think.

Home Gym equipment.

As many of us are busy with work and always caught in a traffic jam especially you live at KL or PJ, having some simple home Gym equipment can save you time and money. Some people have space and money, they can buy those awesome machine where you see at the Gym, like treadmill, rowing machine, weight machine. Damn! Those ain't cheap Bro, RM2000+ Yo! Sadly most of us don't have that kind of money and space. Average men in Malaysia don't own very big house, and spending that amount of money could be a waste if you don't know how to use it properly, beside it needs maintenance too. Some of you might hate to go to Gym because over crowded, dirty lar, body building feel lar or don't have the time right? Well home training might be just for you. Now lets make it serious a little bit here, if you wanna buy equipment isn't about the price, space and functionality, for me that main thing is commitment. If you wanna do training and be fit, I can tell you is make a time for you to workout. Don't buy it if you are those guys that can't commit to it.

1. Dumbbells

These are the most easiest tools you can get to do some workout. My advice is get an adjustable one, like the one I have now. If you are a beginner, you shouldn't start with heavy weight so buying these can help to increase weight gradually. If you buy those fixed dumbbells, it will cause you even more money and you can not change the weight. The plate is sold separately if you want to increase the weight in the future. One more thing is choose a plastic handle, those iron handle will hurt your hand. Price are around RM250++ for each. There are even more expensive and advance dumbbells which are call power block. They are really expensive but the good thing is the size is same as normal dumbbell but you can adjust the weight easily, meaning you don't have to open the spin lock to change weight like the normal one does.

2. Resistance band/ tube.

If you are busy person who travel a lot and always don't have time to workout then this one if for you. I own one, cost me around RM60 and I use it when I travel, no space needed and easy to carry. They are pretty simple to use but do check before you use them, it might snap if there is a small damage on the tube. There are different resistance bands on the market, some are fixed one which is just band without handle, some with handle, some are non-adjustable and some does. So the best one I found so far is the one in the picture. The tube are detachable and it comes with different levels. If you can't get these, you may get one which the tube is nondetachable but adjustable. The tube is fixed with the handle but you may adjust the tube to the length you want. You can find a lot of exercises from the internet for this equipment.

3. Abs roller

This one I think most of guys who want a six-pack will buy. Its quite cheap and very easy to use. I not really a big fan for this. Because to train abs is quite simple, you can use your own body weight to do it, and the most common problem is guys only focus on using this one and forget to train other body parts. Abs roller only use to train abs, nothing more. For me I prefer to buy something that can train different parts of body.

4. Pull up bar.

These are the one where you hook it at your door frame and train back, abs, biceps and they even usable to train chest and triceps too. This one cost me around RM80+. Before you buy one be sure to check  your door frame. Is there a place for you to hook, if you are like me when the door frame is same  wide as the wall above then you might try to avoid buying it. If not you will end up like me or some other guy who buy it and cant use it. Your door frame should be wider than your wall above to hook it. There are some where it only comes with the bar and nothing to hook. Those are mostly permanently fix it at the door with screws, you cant close the door when you buy it.

5. Jump rope.

No time? Lazy? Then you should get one. I own one too, sometime when my day is like hell and really don't have that energy to lift weight or go out to run, I will use jump rope. It might sound like a girl thing to do but try the advance level. Double under, normal skipping is single under where each jump the rope spin one full circle. Double under is two full circle for one jump. Sounds easy but its like hell when you try to do it. You only need 5 to 10 minutes to do double under and you will burn serious amount of calories and fat.

There you have it, these are the simplest equipment you can get for workout and get that fit body. These are still many types of equipment out there in the market where they are easy to use and save space. I personally think that is not about what equipment you buy, is how you use it. You can use it like your everyday friend or just a Hi Bye friend. Everyday friend will treat you well and give you good results. If you use it like Hi Bye friend where you only use it once in a blue moon then don't expect there will any benefit. Avoid wasting your money to buy those small machine that guarantee results like the one I always saw where the machine shake like earthquake to shake away your fat. Come one lar! Joking mie. If the person eat rubbish food and use that thing also won't change one. Plus shaking the fat ass won't help, the only way you can get six-pack is exercise, no other way. Shortcuts, lazy and easy things wont give good result. You either do it or just accept who you are. This is how Highly-Impressive-Man (HIM) keep six-packs, leave your comments and let me know what you think.

Endomorphs, Mesomorphs, Ectomorphs Superhero. Huh? What??

This three are body types, Endomorphs, Mesomorphs, Ectomorphs. Three have different training method and different nutrition requirement. Here I'm going to use superhero to help you understand more each of it and how can you change it.

1. Endomorphs

The most related superhero is definitely Hunk. The superhero with super tough wear jeans that ever made, the jeans won't tear even he becomes bigger. Probably he bough the best Levi's ever. Endomorphs is basically the one who gets call 'Gemuk'. Their body share is round, bulky and higher fat percentage. The advantage with these type of body shape is that they are strong, like Hunk lar! Can crush anything, Strong like hell, so lifting weight and doing power exercise won't be a problem for these guys. The disadvantage is these guys have really high body fat and higher chance of getting hearth disease . Same like those guys you see in the Gym, big in size but very round and fat. The time you think they are Hulk is when they lift those heavy weight and roar like Hulk. The solution, more cardio and watch what you eat, avoid fat, salt and sugar.

2. Mesomorphs

The superhero who are mesomorphs representative is Wolverine. He is only sexy when the blade is out and he is the superhero who always drink alcohol and smoke cigar but still in shape and fit like hell. These are the best body type. These guys are in the middle. They don't have to lift weigh to become muscular, they are already muscular. Like Wolverine, they are strong, muscular, broad shoulder, and big chest. The advantage is they are good in many sports and easy to maintain the fit body shape. The disadvantage is the still need to take care of what they eat, or else still they will grow fat. The solution is train hard and eat well.

3. Ectomorphs

Who are skinny superhero? Yup, the Amazing Spider Man. Who is can only fly or swing at city, if he goes to Kampung I wonder how he fly like he is in the movie. These guys a really skinny, small in frame and low body fat. Many wanna be skinny like these guys, think again. The advantage these guys have is they are good at endurance sport, like marathon. That's why you saw those skinny guys win the marathon champion lor. The greatest advantage they have is they can eat anything they want but still skinny and many HATE this advantage. The disadvantage is they are weak, cant lift heavy weight, they can have really hard time to grow muscles and add some size or weight. The solution is lift heavy, yes, it's a disadvantage but things that kill you will makes you stronger. Skip cardio also, cardio will take away your size and weight.

Here you go guys, this is how Highy-Impressive-Man (HIM) train. Leave me your comment and let me know what you think.

Men's Hairstyles 2014

New year is about to come, have you been thinking about what hairstyle you should get for this coming year 2014? For men, we like to keep it simple and easier to style before we go out, we want quick, simple and most important stylish. Here are the three men's hairstyle for coming 2014 that suit Malaysian guy.

1. Pompadour

 The man who rock is hairstyle is definitely David Beckham, the style icon. After he got this hairstyle it suddenly become his signature. This style has been quite popular since year 2012, but it still rocking. More and more guys are trying to get one like this. To achieve this style, you must must have a very long front fringe, at least the length should be around your nose, keep your sides really short, get a really strong hold wax/gel/clay. One of the tips is blow dry it after you apply your hair product, yes, apply it when its still wet then blow dry it. Use a round comb to pull the front hair up to add volume. Why use a round comb but not a normal one is because it creates a more natural look and its a lot easier.

2. Texture fringe/ bang

To get this hairstyle is far way more easier than the pompadour. No tricky styling technique, just blast the hairdryer to random direction. Keep the front medium length and ask your hairstylist to thinning the front and the sides, because you need to apply some hair product to the front so thinning the hair will make it more natural and wavy, plus it won't make the front heavy. When you applying the product just grab the front hair with some product in your hand and that is, let it be messy. Thinning for the sides is to create the out of bed look, or messy. This hairstyle will be a bit messy.

3. Facial hair

Why this post is about hair and we are now discussing about facial hair. Yes, I put this in is because some of the Malay and Indian guy have one thing that is an advantage (for some of Chinese also). Yes! Their facial hair. For this coming year you will see more and more men are rocking their facial hair. Look at David Beckham, Johnny Depp, and Robert Downy Jr. Pick one that suits you, don't just let it grow like a beggar, do some style on it. Make it like a personal icon. Its really a manly thing to do.

Here you go guys, its time for a new start. That is how Highly-Impressive-Man (HIM) style. Leave your comment and let me know what you think. Happy New Year!!!

Six-pack 101 for year 2014

A whole new year is about to start. What plans or goals will you have for next coming year? Since many of you guys planning to join Gym next year and Gym will be crowded like Hell, or you probably don't like go to Gym which fill with a lot of meat head but still want to get that six-pack, here I'm going give you a guide on how to plan your fitness plan for the coming year. My aim here is to help people to get started but not helping you to walk on the stage and do posing, that will be way too far, so I won't go too far just some basic things. Here is the 3 steps or I like to call it 3 levels.

Level 1: Body weight exercise.

Alright, this is the basic one. I know you can search bunch of body weight exercises from the internet so there is no point for me to teach you one by one, but my point here is why you need to do start by this but not lifting weight. The reasons are, if you lift weight with no basic you will get tired really fast and injured, you don't know what is resistance, you don't know what is muscles focus, you don't know why you need tempo. So my tips for you is this, start doing it until you build up the habit to train 5 times a week, you can do more reps that before, you can feel muscle burning when you train. The main reason is help you not to quit, which is the most reason why people can't change their physics. If you can't build up the habit, you can quit because you will never get the six-pack. Start searching internet for body weight training and start doing it.

Level 2: Resistance band or simple dumbbell training.

After you can understand how to train your muscles or muscles focus and you have build up your training habit. You can start adding more resistance into you training. You can start buying a resistance band or tube, which cost around RM50 at Fitness Concept, or a simple dumbbell set which cost a little bit more expensive which is around RM250+. I prefer you buy resistance band, its cheaper and you can use it when you travel. Now you can start doing more higher level of resistance training, but start light. That is why I don't recommend you to join Gym yet, you don't pay Gym fee to use light dumbbell and get jam in the traffic, do it at home save time, money, and avoid injury. If you get injured you will feel not just pain, and you cant even do daily task.

Level 3: Join a good Gym

After you feel that those dumbbells and resistance band is too light for you, you may start join a Gym now. Here some tips before you join, make sure there is someone to train with you before you join. The reason being is to help you stay motivated, prevent you from injury, and push yourself further. You will know how important a Gym buddy is. Use proper form when you lift those weight to get the most out of your training.

Here you go guys, if you can beat the level 1, you are on your way to get a good body. What I found is that guys aren't lazy they just don't know how to keep themselves motivated. If you got good body goal for next year, follow this plan. It will help you in a long way. This is how Highly-Impressive-Man train, leave you comments and let me know what you think.

Who you really are??

Sometimes we will ask our-self this question. Is something that we sometimes hardly understand, our-self. Who am I? Do I understand "ME" enough? Now in order to tell you guys how to answer this, it doesn't require your friends, your colleagues, your family to tell you. What it needs to answer it is you. Let put it more simple, you are who you wanted to be. Simple? or stupid? Kinda. I'm writing this post is to completely not answer this question but the other one. Who am I going to be? 3 tips to become a better you and answer who you are.

1. Personal Branding

Coca-cola is a well known brand. It worth estimated $79.2 billion, if I change that soft drink to become you. How much your brand worth. Not your income, not your net worth but your brand. RM100,000 or RM10? Most of the time our own personal brand worth nothing because we don't build it, we are bad drivers, we are rude, we don't respect other races, we don't respect other religion, we look down on foreign workers, we don't respect other people. With all of that, how much your brand can really worth?? Since you don't build your brand, and no one else beside you can build it.

2. Find the brand you want to build and start building it.

To find the brand doesn't you need to ask around to find your brand. Did Coca-cola ask everyone to find their brand, no right. They define what their brand is. Same as you, you define what is your brand. You want to be a leader, a good husband, a good business person, Yes you could. It needs hard work and patients. You think Coca-cola build their brand just in one night? Think again. One more thing, nothing is perfect same as Coke, they are one of the unhealthy soft drinks, but their brand stand their ground. Same as you, people might judge you in different way, don't get stress out because people don't think good about you, maybe not now but one day will.

3. Why this Bullsh*t matter?

You will earn respect, trust, probably money if you are a businessman, and you will stand out compare to others, you will make people think good about you. Does that matter now? Check your Facebook (the most dangerous one), Linkedin profile, your Twitter, what you wear, what you do everyday. Does any of that define what you wanted to be.

There you go guys, what makes a good Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM)? The answer is you and your brand. Leave your comment and let me know what you think.

Less expensive item to spice up your style from UNIQLO

I'm a big fan of UNIQLO, they have the basic and most comfortable wear. This brand from Japan focus on the basic thing of clothing, which is comfort. Its simple and nice. I found three items that I think men should check it out.

1. The tie.

Tie is essential for men, is a good piece to layer your style. These tie only cost you RM29.90 which is quite cheap. If you are bored which those common tie, you can try these. First and second one is blunt-end knitted tie. They are more to casual tie, as you can see the end of the tie is flat. Personally I suggest you buy the second one if you plan to, although it's a casual tie, you can still wear it at office, why not right. Second one isn't so formal and not so casual. If you pick the first one, do wear it during casual hour, because the design is too casual. The third one is wool tie which it has a rough feel, this one will definaly rock your style. People will notice your tie the first moment they saw your. Formal or casual, both are suitable.

2. Vintage eye wear.

This one is RM39.90. Cheap and it's something you can change your style to a different look. If you want to get more vintage style, try this.

3. RM69.90 Jeans.

If you are looking for a jeans below RM100, there you have it. I suggest this one is because it's a slim-fit cut, where the cutting won't be too big and baggy. The material is quite soft but not low quality soft. This jeans have no washed design on it, which make it very simple and suitable for any occasions. Jeans is always men's best friend. You can wear it very very long time, and suit many styles.  

Check it out at Uniqlo and add something more choice to you style. This is Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) style. Leave your comment and let me know what you think.

Why Are You Argue With Your Girl???

When you have a girlfriend everything seems nice, like everyday you woke up with the most energetic and most happier emotions ever. Every couple will have their most happiest and most loving period during the first few months of their love journey. After sometime, problems start to occur and things seem not going well for both of you.  But why both of you argue? No one knows why both of you are argue for, now here are 3 tips on how you can avoid argument with your girl.

1. Don't always try to solve everything of your girl problems.

Girls will tell you everything that they can think of during the time. She will tell you about every single problems of they are facing even those tiny one. What she want isn't asking you to help her to solve it, she just want someone (especially you) to listen to her. Women tent to talk more when they are miserable. So when you always trying to solve your girl things so often, she will hate it, next thing argument happen. When you want you to help her, she will ask. So when she doesn't you just listen.

2. She ask you to do this and do that.

This is something we guys will hate. Sometime your girl will order you to do something, and we guys will hate it. Why? Because guys will hate when girls ask us to do something that we dislike or the second reason are when she did that, is like she doubt about our abilities or choices. Example: Clean your bloody dirty room. Instead you angry about it, you should think the other way, girls won't do so when she doesn't care, so accept her though and try to do it, if you get a girlfriend that doesn't care so much, you can start thinking about probably end the relationship.

3. Let her talks about her thing first before your tell her yours

This is quite a simple thing to do, when both you are talking or chatting, as a gentleman you should let you girl talks about her things first. She will feel more relax after she talk about her thing first and it shows that you care about her. Beside that she will listen to you more when she done talking about her own things. This is nature of a girl, you can't change it, you can only accept it.

Here you go guys, this the way to avoid argument with your girl. This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) treat their girl. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

How to wear a white shirt

The must have item in men's wardrobe. If you do search online for men must have things, the white shirt will be sure on the list. It's easy to wear it with different style. Just because it's simple, it doesn't mean you won't wear it the wrong way. Now, here are the 3 most easy tips to rock that white shirt of yours.

1. Never wear it with black!

Never mix it with black tie, black leather shoes, black belt, black vest and black everything. Mind your watch also if you are wearing leather one, try not to wear a black leather watch. You will be end up like a waitress style when you mix it with black. From the photo we can see the shirt fit him, the design is good, but in Malaysia people will call you a waitress. I don't know why people will say that but they just do. The solution? Mix it with grey slack, brown belt, or brown shoes. Go to more colors, black and white are too traditional. and it's very waitress style.

2. Mind the material!

In Malaysia we have hot girls plus hot weather. We live in a D*mn summer country and we don't have free air-con everywhere like in western do. So when you are going to sweat, of course you will, it's better you choose a white shirt that have good absorption and thicker material. When you buy those thin one and you think it's going to help you stay cool, look at the picture above. Not 'Man' at all.

3. Choose a good deodorant!

This tip isn't about how you wear it, is about how you take care of it. Well, we Malaysian do sweat a lot and as men we should use deodorant to keep away those body smell. Some guys won't have fishy smell after they sweat but most of us do. So when you are using deodorant, be sure to choose one that won't leave stains, yes! those yellow stains and 'Geli betul' when you saw it. Since it's white, the mark is very visible.

Here you go guys, rock that white shirt you have, you can make it the great piece of shirt you will ever have.  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) wear a white shirt. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

Why Most of Malaysian Man Have Belly Fat

Belly fat! We man hate it. People look at you and will say this, "Why he so fat one", "Gemuk betul!", and the most saddest is "Long time no see, you seems having a happy life, I can tell from your shape!". Maybe you tried before to get it away but it just won't disappear. The are few reasons that why Malaysian man have belly fat. This post is only here to help those who care about their health, but if you feel that being chubby makes your more happy and look good then is a good thing, some guys do look nicer when they are fat, but still take care your health will ya.

1. Mamak!

We as Malaysian love mamak, is our culture, and it represent us. We have dinner at there, 'Yam Cha' at there, supper at there, and the feel is awesome. The more often you go, the more likely you won't get those belly fat away, we Malaysian know that the mamak food is oily, salty, spicy, like mee goreng. The teh tarik is D*mn sweet (probably it won't starting next year). But Bro call leh! How can I not go. Well, like I said the more often you go the worse, less you go the better. Life is about choices you made, you can choose social or health when these situation occur.

2. It's a habit since we are young!

The three things that form your habit since young are school, parents and friends. Our education system never care about student health, no good habit was form at school. Does your parents eating healthy? If yes, good news for you, if not, change your family eating culture. Well, friends who you hang out when you are young play sports, is good. If not, probably you won't do sport now. Habit can control us, since it's our habit, why not we control them rather than they control us.

3. We are talker more than do-er!

You tell your friend this, "Bro, I tell you what, I'm going to hit the Gym starting next week". Most of the time, you either join for short period of time or totally didn't even join. Most of the guys have one concept, they think they put in all the hard work and after they get great shape they can quit, no need to maintain one lor? If you think that way, no great shape will come to you. What I mean do-er is a person who take care their health and lose their belly fat for rest of their lives. Rest of my life?! You Gila kah? Erm.....try to look down and see what you have?

If you can get these things in place and commit yourself then is a good start. Best of luck guys!  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) take care their six-pack. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.

One Week for Happier Work

Most of the time, D*mn things happen at your work. Your stupid boss, stubborn colleagues, too much work load or what ever happen on you that just make your work like S*IT, you suddenly just can't wake up and have to passion to work. You just can't take control of that thing, but it just continue to 'Kacau' you.

Sometimes what we will do is hate it, angry about it, or simply do nothing. But still it happen everyday. So what can you do about it, for years you have been in this position, you love the job but there just nothing you can do to change. Well, you do can change it. Here is the one week challenge for you. Within this one week what you have to do is one thing, no complain. Therse are reasons for not to complain.

1. Waste of time!

Complain is waste of time. Why? Complain won't help. When you spend that 5 to 10 minutes to complain about it, that 5 to 10 minutes probably can be use to solve the problem. Time is precious especially when you have a lot of work load.

2. Complain makes people hate you!

People have their own problem to be solve. Yes, people just doesn't care about your problem. Human are selfish. Since people don't care then why you still tell your problem to them? They will one reaction, hate about what you told them. Complain and trying to solve a problem is different. When you tell someone about your problem and the purpose is to solve it then is not complain, if you're not trying to solve smt, that is complain. 

3. Those who don't complain climb the corporate ladder faster.

Yes, this is true. Your boss will pick the one who complain less. They won't know they do so, but they do. So what can you do to stand out compare to others, yes, no complain.

Try it out for one week, cancel out all your complains. If you can do it for one week, do it for another week. repeat it will make result better. Happy working man!  This is how Highly-Impressive-Men (HIM) work. Leave your commend and let me know what you think.